Truth is... who wants to grow old alone? When you're in love, you feel like he/she completes you. So blinded by the thing call LOVE! But for me, i have learn't it the hard way. Out of 70% of girls in the world have probably went through what i had. It makes us the 70% smarter and more independent in life.
Right, the point is... if you love someone and plan to have a relationship, that is just ONE THING. But the next level to it, the "Marriage".... Boy you gotta think carefully if this man is capable to take care of you and the children. Is he trustworthy enough, does he have a good financial background. Yes we all know that both husband and wife work together, but the man of the house still needs to be able to give the kids money for education and food at least. Statistics shows 80% of marriages ended up in divorce due to money. Money money money. Nothing but money!
I'm not saying poor man will never get marry doh! I'm just saying, if you girls/women think you are materialistic, always need to shop for new shoes and new clothes like me, please don't ever date a poor man, cause you will end up creating a hard life for yourself and your kids in the future. I'm sorry, but i think the minimum education for everyone should be a degree at least. To get a good job. To get enough income to satisfy the basic needs of the family. In this new era, its just too much expenses, too expensive for anything, everything... prices for food and household things can only get higher, and people have to work 5 times harder than before.
If my sister is reading this, don't be offended by the truth. Hate me if you want to, but i only care for you way too much to say it to you cause you won't listen. You only need to realise it yourself. You know what i have been through. So... i will assume you are smarter than that okay.
So yeah... i hope my future husband will have a good job, enough pay check in the end of the month to pay the bills, buy food and take me shop for clothes, but i will do the same as well, i will definately work and get a good paycheck. Love is Love... but Love needs money to survive, dare to correct me if i'm wrong. Marriage needs money to survive. Go check how much a mother needs for diapers and milk power every month. Medical check-up, and don't forget the education~
Think harder, and make your decision wise.... Ladies~
